Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Love is not always about YOU


All these things, we endure when we give up the one person we truly cared about. Being alone was never really an option when we’re in love. The feeling or just the thought of being in love was probably the happiest and most unexplainable feeling in the world. Sometimes we do not know why we’re in love or why we love. Sometimes we can list down countless reasons why we love someone. But when the time comes that you have no choice but to give up, to let go… Will you? Can you? 

Most of us tend to be selfish when it comes to love. We only think of what can make us happy, what’s the best for us. But we’re wrong. Loving is not just about ourselves, it’s about the other person --- the person you care for, the person you trust, that one person who you always think of, the person who wakes you up in the morning with a smile, the person who kisses you without a warning, the person who brings you chocolates when you’re stressed at work, the person who hugs you after an argument, the person you’re proud having in your life, the most honest person you know, the person who can easily make you smile for not doing anything, the only person who calls you baby / honey / love (or what have you), the person you truly love.

Yes! It’s all about him.

When you love, it’s aptly to think about yourself first before getting into a relationship or even in getting out of one. But what if the person you love is already struggling fighting for it, for you, for your love, for his love for you. Would you still battle in his heart?

What if he cannot give you everything you ask for? 
 … Would that be enough for you?

What if he’s not happy anymore?
 … Would you still fight?

Would you let go to see him happy instead and lose the fight?
Would you? 
Can you??

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