In life, you only have two choices, to live with the past or to live and plan the future. The present is where we make your decision. The time where you let go and stick with your choice.
Most of the time, you hold on to past memories, good or bad. Hanging on to good memories makes it feel better, you feel alive. Grieving, in most cases, helps you to move on. The past is called the past because you cannot bring it to your future. You have to learn to forgive and to let go. We all know it’s not easy to let go but in time, someone will help you move on. Someone will heal all those pain and make you smile again. Someone will bring hope to your life again. And then you will realize that it’s time to let go. That’s the time you live to the future.
You may have lost love but I'm sure you will find one again someday.